Commemoration of Monica, Mother of Augustine
Monday, August 27, 2012
The Lord be with you
Monica (333 –
387) was the devoted mother of Augustine of Hippo, who wrote extensively of her
virtues and his life with her in his Confessions. (Monica is the traditional
spelling of her name. However, a fragment of her actual tombstone has been
discovered at Ostia, on which her
name was spelled Monnica. Therefore,
some now use that form of her name.) Throughout her life, she sought the
spiritual welfare of her children, especially that of her brilliant son,
Augustine, praying many years for his conversion.
Monica, Mother of Augustine |
Because of her name and place of birth, Monica is assumed to
have been of Berber origin (North Africa). She was married
early in life to Patritius, who held an official position in Tagaste in Numidia.
Patritius was a pagan, though like so many at that period, his religion was no
more than a name; his temper was violent and he appears to have been of dissolute
habits. Consequently Monica’s married life was far from being a happy one, more
especially as Patritius’s mother seems to have been of a like disposition.
There was, of course, a gulf between husband and wife; her alms, deeds and
habits of prayer annoyed him, but it is said that he always held her in a sort
of reverence. Monica was not the only matron of Tagaste whose married life was
unhappy, but, by her sweetness and patience, she was able to exercise a good
example amongst the wives and mothers of her native town; they knew that she
suffered as they did, and her words and example had a proportionate effect.
Monica had three children: Augustine the eldest, Navigius
the second, and a daughter, Perpetua. Monica had been unable to secure baptism
for her children, and she experienced much grief when Augustine fell ill. In
her distress she asked Patritius to allow Augustine to be baptized; Patritius
agreed, but on the boy’s recovery withdrew his consent. Her husband did become
a Christian shortly before he died in 371. Monica decided not to marry again.
All Monica’s anxiety now centered in Augustine; he was
wayward and, as he himself tells us, lazy. Augustine had been sent to Carthage,
to further his studies, and there he lived dissolutely. At Carthage,
Augustine had become a Manichean. When he shared his views regarding
Manichaeism with Monica, she was horrified.
Monica followed Augustine to Carthage.
It was at this time that she went to see a certain holy bishop, whose name is
not given, but who consoled her with the now famous words, “the child of those
tears shall never perish.” Augustine then left Carthage,
secretly so his mother would not accompany him. Monica, though, followed her
wayward son to Rome. When she
arrived he had already gone to Milan,
but she followed him. Here she found St. Ambrose and through him she ultimately
had the joy of seeing Augustine convert to Christianity, after seventeen years
of resistance on his part, and prayers on her part.
Following her son’s baptism, the two planned to return to North
Africa in the fall of 387. However, weakened by her travels,
Monica fell sick and died at Ostia, Italy.
She was buried there.
The LC-MS has followed the lead of the Roman Catholic Church
in celebrating this lady of faith on August 27, the day before the date set
aside to remember Augustine, whose life was so interwoven with her own. Other
traditions remember her on May 4, making Monica available as a model for
Mother’s Day in places where that observance is expected.
Monica and Augustine - Scheffer |
Prayer: O Lord,
You strengthened Your patient servant Monica through spiritual discipline to
persevere in offering her love, her prayers, and her tears for the conversion
of her husband and of Augustine, their son. Deepen our devotion to bring
others, even our own family, to acknowledge Jesus Christ as Savior and Lord,
who with You and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, now and forever.
Amen.
Other appropriate
prayers:
- For mothers that by their prayers and example they may bring up their children in the Faith
- For homes where only one parent is Christian
- For the spirit of unceasing prayer
- For the unity of families in Christ
- For Christians in Africa
Blessings in Christ,
Pastor John Rickert
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